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Tuesday, February 13, 2018
It’s also not chocolates, flowers, or teddy bears. I know why these things start to look like a good idea: You’re at checkout at CVS and you see a Valentine’s Day–related article, and boom! You remember it’s February, which means that either you have just enough time to pull something together to try and impress her, or you messed up really bad. You forgot Valentine’s Day and she said nothing, which is worse than a fight. Just so you know, it’s the 14th; It’s always on the 14th.
There are very few things I’d recommend giving to all women. Cash is a seriously controversial gift, not to mention it is very cold. Here is some advice that works for every couple. In the seminal film The Break-Up, there is a scene where Jennifer Aniston, who is, bizarrely, dating Vince Vaughn, yells at him, exasperated, “I don’t want you to do the dishes. I want you to want to do the dishes.” “Why would I want to do dishes?” No one wants to do the dishes. That means she doesn’t want to do the dishes either. She does, however, want the dishes done. It’s of value to her to have the dishes done. He doesn’t care that she values that. She’s upset that she’s with someone who doesn’t want to do the work of being in a couple, and if she always has to ask him to do something, it doesn’t “count.” She’s still in charge of making sure the dishes get done, even though you volunteer to do them with being asked to. This doesn't have to apply to only dishes, but almost any chore that she does on a regular basis. If you do the laundry or grocery shopping without being asked it will be noticed and greatly appreciated.
This doesn’t seem like much, but it will get a very welcomed reaction from your Valentine if you make the effort before being asked.