One of the hot
topics of the people is the concept of “mindful drinking”. This
is a concept of being aware of when and how much you are truly consuming. It is all about still allowing yourself to
consume alcoholic beverages, but limiting it to specific times and places and
how much. It is having the strength to
say just water or club soda instead of another cocktail or other adult
beverage. Making sure that you are in
control of yourself and not allowing the booze to make your decisions.
"There
are many shades of gray when it comes to alcohol addiction,"and perhaps there can be shades of gray when it comes to sobriety as well." Off-and-on drinkers can
fill their calendars with alcohol-free events. Others use mindfulness-a focus on the present
moment that recent research has found to be effective in helping heavy drinkers
cut back-and similar strategies to booze when it suits still be able to say no
when it doesn't.
Groups like CLUB
SÖDA are around and aren't necessarily helping people get sober. The
founders are careful to state before each event that CLUB SÖDA is not an
addiction recovery group, it is estimated that only 30% of attendees never
drink. The group isn't even angling for people to drink less, though that's
often the result. Instead, it's more about cultivating "mindfulness around
drinking, and questioning what effort is actually being put toward bliss in
their life.
"I just
got to a place where I wanted to stop having alcohol be such a presence in my
life," say some members, that now typically limit drinking to Friday and
Saturday nights. "I still like alcohol, but I wanted to bring more control
to my life.
I feel like this is a good practice, because like most things in life, moderation is the real key. Being aware of what you are doing really make sense, no matter what you are doing. There is a lot more information out there on line, just Google "Mindful Drinking".